Where Did The Dough Go? #54

by Jen on May 18, 2012

Welcome to yet another weekly edition of “Where Did The Dough Go?”. Below you can get a completely open and honest view of what we’re spending money on, how much we’re saving, investing and putting away for retirement. Please feel free to learn from our financial mistakes if at all possible, it’s way better than making them yourself. ;-)

Friday 11th
No real spending today
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
- /+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)

-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Saturday 12th
- $13.30
(dining out)

Sunday 13th
- $17.91 (cigarettes)

Monday 14th
- $13.68
(cigarettes)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)
 
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Tuesday 15th
- $56.22 
(groceries)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)

-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Wednesday 16th
- $15.14 (gas @ 4.159 per gallon)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)

-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Thursday 17th
No real spending today
-/+ $10.45 
(left-overs transfer to Travel Fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Total Weekly Spending: $146.70

Categorized:

Savings $20.45
Cigarettes $31.59
Gas $15.14
Dining Out $13.30
Groceries $56.22
Save 4 Car insurance $10.00

$$$ Entire Paycheck Totals $$$

Income: $1,246.20
Spending: $1,246.20

Categorized:

Savings $30.45
Rent & Bills $700.00
Cigarettes $118.92
Dining Out $46.45
Groceries $204.76
Gas $79.67
Alcohol $20.95
Roth IRA contribution $25.00
Save 4 Car insurance $20.00

Pre-tax 401K Contributions: $141.66

Notes: Well, this isn’t exactly how I’d hoped it would turn out. I really didn’t think we would need to buy groceries again during this pay period, so that sucks. We usually don’t spend this much on gas, but the alcohol spending was less than normal, so that’s good. Yep, that’s 2 times eating out this month, so I have already failed that goal. I really couldn’t help myself, I really NEEDED chocolate and I didn’t feel like going in to a store. So that meant that I had to get something for everybody else too, silly chocolate cravings.

We also seem to be spending more money on cigarettes lately; I had to throw that out before somebody else did. ;-) On my part, I’ve been wanting to cut down—which in turn stresses me out and I end up smoking more. I know it’s stupid, it just works that way with me sometimes. As for my honey, I have no clue why he’s smoking more. I hope you had a great week with your finances.

 

How did your budgeting/spending go this week?

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Drinking Alcohol Spend More MoneyCan drinking alcohol make you spend more money? In my experience it can, but that doesn’t mean that it’s that way for everybody. Is it? Drinking alcohol can cause you to take more risks and lower your inhibitions. I know that I have done some CRAZY stuff in my time, most of which I would never consider doing while sober. ;-)

Thinking back, I can come up with a few examples of how I’ve spent more money while I was drinking. It’s a good thing I don’t drink very often, usually only once every few months.

Spending More on Tipping

When I’m still in my right mind, I usually tip a buck or two for each drink the bartender gives me. That’s not bad, it appears to be the average in my area. In my area, drinks seem to average between $4 and $8 for mixed drinks, which is what I get—I love hurricanes (with 3 maraschino cherries on the sword). Now, after a few drinks when I’m getting a bit drunk, my tipping dramatically changes. If the bartender is really nice or friendly, I’ve been known to tip up to $5 for a single drink. For me at least, drinking alcohol makes me spend more money when tipping.

Spending on Pizza

I don’t know what it is about drinking that makes me want to eat pizza, it just seems to magically coincide. I’m not even sure if I was actually hungry or not, maybe it just sounded good. I remember one Margarita Night (which is where my honey and I drink at home) when my husband came looking for me; he found me checking out for an online pizza order. He was really surprised that I was ordering pizza and accurately inputting my credit card information into the little box. Would I have ordered pizza if I wasn’t drinking? Maybe, but it’s always more likely when I’m drinking alcohol.

Spending Money Online

This is just a bad idea overall. When I’m drinking, my common sense usually flies out the window. It’s hard enough to keep from impulse spending while sober, imagine the difficulty one would face when presented with the plethora of items available online. I haven’t done this at all in at least 2 or 3 years, but I won’t lie…it has happened a few times before.

Spending More Money at Casinos

Obviously, if you’re in a casino at all, you’ve probably decided to spend something. Not that it’s a great idea, since I’m currently hating gambling, but it happens. If you’re drinking at this casino, your chances of spending more money can greatly increase. Casinos just make it so easy for you to keep spending your money there. There are usually about 7.5 billion ATMs scattered all over the place, check cashing counters and probably loan sharks lurking in the shadows. You might not be thinking clearly about your budget and just want to continue having a great time.

 

Have you ever spent more money while drinking?
Do you think I just have crappy willpower? It’s okay, I won’t get mad. :-)

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A few years back, our finances felt completely hopeless and I hated it. My husband was bringing home around $1,600 a month after taxes, but it just wasn’t enough to cover our spending. Our credit cards were our saviors and the balances kept rising. He worked so hard but had nothing to show for it, aside from growing debt. What could I do?

Like many other people lacking wisdom in personal finance, I did an online search about getting out of debt and saving money. The results were typical: save 10% of your income, save $50 every month, spend less. A plethora of common sense was laid in front of me and it just made me feel worse. Each month our debt was growing, so how could I save 10% of nothing or $50 we didn’t have?

I experienced many emotions after that; I was sad, frustrated, angry, overwhelmed and I was ready to give up altogether. As the days went by, I started thinking about the main point of saving money. If one source says to save 10% of your income and another says to save $50 each month, the amount is irrelevant. I might not have been able to save a lot of money then, but I could spare a couple bucks. We were already spending too much, so what harm could come from increasing it a bit?

Those couple bucks were the foundation for what we have now. I opened an account with ING Direct and setup a weekly automatic transfer of 99 cents for every Friday. Sure it might have only started out with a couple bucks (actually $1.98) with each bi-weekly paycheck but that was enough to get us started. Momentum slowly built and I was able to add in an additional weekly transfer for the same amount, then I increased it to $1.00 (which wasn’t noticeable at all), then I eventually made my way to 5 weekly transfers of $1.00 each. It might have only been $5.00 that we were saving each week, but it felt empowering.

Then other things came like cutting our expenses, stretching our money, budgeting, paying off debt, tracking spending and so forth. We never seemed to have to money to pay for our car insurance every 6 months, so I setup another transfer for $2.00 5 days per week—going straight into our Car Insurance sub-account at ING. Now we don’t worry about not having the money to pay our car insurance, because it’s always there. If our rates ever change, I can adjust the amount we transfer to reflect the new amount.

Thanks to a little creativity, a passion was sparked in me for personal finance. Today, I have a personal finance blog, an emergency fund, no credit card debt and am trying to make better financial decisions each day. We even started making contributions to a 401IK, opened a Roth IRA and an investment account. Our net worth might not be much but as long as we keep doing what we can it will keep growing.

Everybody has to start somewhere; otherwise they will never start at all. Small changes over time can make a big difference, so if you’re not ready to make dramatic changes to your finances…at least start with baby steps. The main point is that you are doing something (rather than nothing) to progress toward what you want. Making small changes might not get you there quickly, but they can motivate and inspire you to continue on your journey. It all adds up. :-)


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Last night was the end of the Amazon Gift Card Giveaway. The winner will receive a $25 Amazon.com e-gift card. The winner is:

Comment #702

Michelle Tucker May 11, 2012 at 5:07 PM

Congratulations! I’ll be sending you a confirmation email later today (I don’t want your gift card to be marked as spam/junk), so keep an eye on your inbox. Then, just confirm so that I can send your $25 Amazon.com e-gift card.

 

To everybody:

Thank you so much for entering my giveaway; I wish you all could win, but there’s no way I could afford it. :-) I’ll probably be doing another giveaway soon, so keep your eyes peeled. Have a weekend.

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Where Did The Dough Go? #53

by Jen on May 11, 2012

Welcome to yet another weekly edition of “Where Did The Dough Go?”. Below you can get a completely open and honest view of what we’re spending money on, how much we’re saving, investing and putting away for retirement. Please feel free to learn from our financial mistakes if at all possible, it’s way better than making them yourself. ;-)

Friday 4th
+ $1,246.20 Honey’s Paycheck
- $700.00 (rent and bills)
- $20.95 (honey whiskey)
- $44.23 (gas @ 4.059 per gallon)
- $87.33 (cigarettes)
- $33.15 (Olive Garden)
-/+ $25.00 (Roth IRA contribution)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Saturday 5th
No spend day :-)

Sunday 6th
No spend day :-)

Monday 7th
- $148.54
(groceries)
- /+ $1.00 (transfer to savings) 
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Tuesday 8th
No real spending today :-)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)

-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Wednesday 9th
No real spending today :-)
- /+ $1.00 (transfer to savings) 
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Thursday 10th
- $20.30 
(gas @ 4.059 per gallon)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to savings)
-/+ $1.00 (transfer to Xmas fund)
-/+ $2.00 (transfer to ING to save for Car insurance)

Total Weekly Spending: $1,099.50
Pre-tax 401K Contributions $141.66

Categorized:

Savings $10.00
Rent & Bills $700.00
Cigarettes $87.33
Dining Out $33.15
Groceries $148.54
Gas $64.53
Alcohol $20.95
Roth IRA contribution $25.00
Save 4 Car insurance $10.00

Left-over for remaining week $146.70

Notes: I know the grocery spending looks crazy, but I did a little stocking up. I got 16 boxes of cereal, which should last quite a few months and also some other stuff that was on sale. I’m hoping that we won’t need to spend much more on groceries next week so that I don’t exceed what we usually spend. The gas spending was a little nuts too, we did some additional driving that we really shouldn’t have done (more on that later). I’m hoping to be really tight next week so that I can put a lot into savings. *crossing my fingers* ;-) I hope you had a great week with your spending.

 

How did your budgeting/spending go this week?

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